Scapegoat and Narcissistic Abuse: A Multidimensional Healing Framework

Narcissistic and scapegoat abuse are distinct yet interconnected forms of trauma, each with unique biological and energetic signatures. While narcissistic abuse centers on control, manipulation, and intermittent reinforcement, scapegoat abuse involves targeted blame, wrong-making, and systemic rejection—often within family or group dynamics.

Nervous System & Metabolic Impact

Both abuses trigger chronic HPA axis activation, elevating cortisol and disrupting metabolic function:

• Hypervigilance, shame, and confusion are stored in the nervous system

• Fascia and organs retain trauma—fear in the gut, anger in the liver, grief in the lungs

• Insulin resistance, hypothyroidism, and estrogen dominance emerge from sustained stress 

Scapegoating often leads to metabolic suppression—weight gain despite restriction—due to low body temperature, high oxidative stress, and PUFA release from stored fat.

Soul Layers: Trauma in the Energetic Field

Abuse wounds the soul across layers:

1. Etheric Layer: Physical trauma disrupts the life-force grid, causing fatigue and pain

2. Emotional Layer: Gaslighting and betrayal embed toxic shame, fear, and grief as dense energy clusters

3. Mental Layer: False beliefs like “I’m unworthy” or “I’m the problem” become neural and energetic programs

4. Astral Layer: Soul fragmentation occurs—parts dissociate to survive the abuse

5. Causal Layer: The soul’s purpose is obscured by inherited trauma and karmic loyalty

Healing requires energetic restructuring, not just cognitive processing.

Emotional Stuckness & Energetic Feeding

Stuck emotions—anger, betrayal, grief—create low-vibrational energy fields that attract parasitic entities. These entities feed on unresolved suffering, perpetuating cycles of fear and self-sabotage. 

Gaslighting and betrayal are soul crimes—violations that distort identity and sever connection to inner truth.

But the real trap? Emotional, somatic, and spiritual bypassing—the belief that avoiding "negative" emotions keeps your vibration high.  This denial shames those in pain, rejects the wounded, and leaves trauma buried in the body and soul.

When we bypass, we abandon the inner parts carrying the burden. We don’t transcend pain—we trap it, making ourselves vulnerable to hijack. 

True healing isn’t about positivity.
It’s about owning your emotional truth, feeling it, acknowledging your emotional energy, and freeing it.
Only then can you reclaim your power.

CPTSD and the Energetic Profile of Abuse

Both narcissistic and scapegoat abuse lead to Complex PTSD, marked by:

• Nervous system dysregulation (fight, flight, freeze, fawn)

• Soul fragmentation and identity loss

• Energetic depletion, making victims magnetically vulnerable to further predation

This vulnerability attracts not only human predators but multidimensional parasitic entities and false light beings who feed on trauma, shame, and disempowerment.

The Predator Trap: Why We’re Drawn Back

Abuse survivors are often unconsciously drawn to predators in an attempt to resolve what’s stuck in the body and soul. Conditioned by years of gaslighting, self-trust erodes—making it hard to hear intuition and leaving the field open to:

• False authority figures

• Spiritual predators

• Covert abusers disguised as healers or allies

This is not weakness—it’s soul-level loyalty to unresolved trauma.

Our body is not separate—it’s one layer of our multidimensional soul, interconnected through meridians and the nervous system, always communicating across energetic planes. When we dissociate—a natural survival response to overwhelm—we break trust with our body, weakening that vital connection. 

Reclaiming sovereignty means coming back into the body, slowly and safely.  It’s okay to go at your pace. Healing isn’t about forcing presence—it’s about rebuilding trust so your body and soul can move forward—together. 

Neuroception—the subconscious system that detects safety and threat—relies on this body-soul connection.  It picks up predatory cues through the nervous system, long before the conscious mind registers danger. But if we’re not in the body, we miss these warnings. The messages are there—we just can’t feel them. 

That’s why we keep returning:
We’re trying to heal what’s stuck,
but we’re doing it without our most vital guide—
our embodied knowing.

Flying Monkeys and the Betrayal of the “Kind”

Flying monkeys—enablers who side with the abuser—inflict deep betrayal. When a friend or loved one agrees with the abuser and discards you, it’s not just emotional abandonment—it’s disposal, like “toilet paper flushed away.” 

This lived reality of being used and disposed of devastates the nervous system, reinforcing the belief: “I am not safe.  I am not worthy.”

The cost is high:

• Physical collapse (fatigue, illness)

• Soul fragmentation (loss of self-trust)

• Energetic hemorrhage (drained by unseen forces)

It’s Not a Crime to Be a Victim

Being a victim isn’t weakness. It’s truth.
A victim is someone who has been hurt—not someone who’s “stuck” or “playing a role.”

Victim blaming is the crime.
Abusers and enablers gaslight survivors into believing their pain is a flaw. But seeking support isn’t “being a victim”—it’s being real. It's honoring the emotional truth, that human beings need support when we're hurt. It's being human.

The ones projecting “victim mentality”?
They’re often the ones afraid to face their own pain. 

Real healing begins when you stop apologizing for being hurt—and start honoring your right to safety. It hurts when we realize that those we trusted for emotional support invalidate us and minimize our pain and experience instead. It hurts to realize these aren't safe people for us. It hurts to realize we've been sacrificing our own emotional truth just to feel connected to someone who was never invested in emotional reciprocity as we were. That pain is real, and we deserve to see it for what it is, and honor it.

Reclaiming Sovereignty: The Path Back to Self

You don’t have to stop abusers from abusing—but you can stop accepting it.
You don’t have to endure it to prove you’re strong. 

Healing isn’t about blame.
It’s about boundaries, safety, and reclaiming your yes and no. 

And you are not the problem.
The abuse is.

Tools for Healing: Reclaiming Your Power and Sovereignty

Healing from narcissistic and scapegoat abuse is not about enduring more pain—it’s about resourcing, reclaiming, and rebuilding. 

• Somatic Experiencing (SE) helps release trauma stored in the nervous system, restoring regulation and safety in the body. 

• Internal Family Systems (IFS) allows you to meet and heal the wounded parts of you—without shame or judgment. 

• Metabolic fueling with glucose, thyroid support, and balanced nutrition signals safety to your body, ending the famine response that keeps you stuck.

Integrating Body, Soul, and Biology

True healing aligns body, soul, and biology. Metabolic safety—via glucose and thyroid support—reduces nervous system noise, allowing clearer intuitive signals. Emotional regulation through IFS and SE restores body-soul coherence, enhancing neuroception and the ability to detect predatory cues. 

Remember: regulation precedes revelation. Nervous system stability must come first to prevent retraumatization.

• Safe & Nourished: The 6-Week Trauma-Informed Metabolic Reclamation Plan lays the metabolic foundation for healing.

• The Consciously Present Course, my 12-week program, focuses exclusively on building regulation and safety before any deeper trauma processing begins.

Healing is not just insight—it’s embodied safety, restored cell by cell, breath by breath. 

Nurturing the Body-Soul Connection: NeuroAffective Touch (NAT)

NeuroAffective Touch® (NAT), developed by Dr. Aline LaPierre, uses gentle, attuned touch to heal developmental trauma by engaging the body’s implicit memory and regulating the nervous system through Polyvagal Theory.  It fosters co-regulation, interoception, and body-mind integration, especially where words fall short. 

For remote healing, self-applied NAT allows individuals to use attuned self-touch for regulation, making it accessible even without in-person sessions.  Techniques include placing hands on regulatory areas like the heart, belly, or back, and pairing touch with breath and mindful awareness. 

Both therapist-led and self-directed NAT support healing by:

• Restoring safety and connection

• Releasing protective bracing

• Enhancing somatic resilience

• Supporting integration of pre-verbal trauma 

When combined with SE, metabolic fueling, and energetic hygiene and healing, NAT helps clear energetic blockages and repair soul-level trauma, creating a powerful synergy for deep transformation.

Professional Support That Honors Your Journey

• 1:1 coaching offers personalized guidance as you navigate recovery, rebuild trust in yourself, and establish unshakable boundaries.

• Homeopathy can be a powerful ally in clearing energetic and soul-level trauma. It doesn’t replace inner work—but it amplifies it. 

Ask your homeopath about remedies such as:

• Staphysagria – for suppressed anger, boundary violations, and healing after assault

• Ignatia or Buddleia – for grief, emotional shock, and trauma release

• Aconite – for acute fear, panic, and shock

• Argentum nitricum – for anticipatory anxiety, especially when walking on eggshells

• Hypericum – for nervous system repair and nerve pain

• Kali phos – a tissue salt for nervous exhaustion and mental fatigue

• Aurum metallicum – for deep shame, worthlessness, and suicidal thoughts

• Causticum – for being silenced, parentified, or martyred

• Natrum muriaticum – for grief held in isolation

• Silicea – for those who withdraw and struggle to assert their needs

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• Re-Membering You: A Trauma-Informed Path to Empath Sovereignty – my 6-week course designed to help you rebuild from the inside out, reclaim your energy, and stand in your power.

• Body Wisdom: 7 Days of Nervous System Safety – my free mini-course to help you begin feeling resourced, regulated, and ready to heal.

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You don’t have to do this alone.
Your body, mind, and soul are worth the investment. 

Scientific References Supporting Key Assertions

1. Narcissistic Abuse & CPTSD

• Herman, J. (1992). Trauma and Recovery: Recovery from CPTSD unfolds in three stages: safety, remembrance, and reconnection.

• Van der Kolk, B. (2015). The Body Keeps the Score: Trauma is stored in the body; somatic therapies are essential for healing.

• Walker, P. (2013). Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: Identifies emotional flashbacks, toxic shame, and the inner critic as core features of CPTSD. 

2. Neuroception & the Nervous System

• Porges, S. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neuroception—subconscious threat detection—underlies trauma responses and social engagement.

• Levine, P. (2012). In an Unspoken Voice: Trauma disrupts autonomic regulation; healing requires restoring safety in the nervous system. 

3. Barbara Brennan Healing Science

• Brennan, B. (1987). Hands of Light: The Human Energy Field (HEF) reflects physical and emotional health; energy healing supports deep transformation.

• Brennan, B. (1993). Light Emerging: Healing involves clearing energetic blockages across soul layers. 

4. Homeopathic Remedies for Trauma

• Ignatia amara: For acute grief, sighing, and emotional suppression (Dr. Nancy Malik, Homeopathic Treatment of PTSD).

• Aconite: For fear, shock, and panic after trauma (Owen Homoeopathics, Emotional Trauma).

• Staphysagria: For suppressed anger, boundary violations, and sexual trauma (Owen Homoeopathics, Emotional Trauma).

• Natrum muriaticum: For silent grief, isolation, and betrayal (Homeopathy247, Homeopathy for Grief).

• Aurum metallicum: For deep shame, worthlessness, and suicidal ideation (Dr. Nancy Malik, Homeopathic Treatment of PTSD). 

5. NeuroAffective Touch (NAT) & Developmental Trauma

• LaPierre, A. & Heller, L. (2012). Healing Developmental Trauma: NAT addresses attachment deficits and pre-verbal trauma through attuned touch.

• Field, T. (Touch Research Institute): Touch is foundational to relational health; supports vagal regulation and emotional integration. 

These references validate the multidimensional framework of abuse, trauma, and recovery—integrating nervous system science, energy healing, and somatic-emotional regulation.